"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by VHT252
i totally understand where he is coming from. Im almost 23 and im still a virgin, and never had a GF. But i have social anxiety. Ive tried time and time again to over come it and be social but it just isnt happening. The few times i go out i totally get overshadowed by the more social people. I just cant compete with people that are just naturally loud and talkative. I think its great that you guys are trying to keep us positive by offering advice and stuff but the truth is its way easier said than done to just overcome something like this. For me im not even sure if it is overcomable. I mean ive been this way my entire life, even when i was very young like 2-3. I think i might have been born with social anxiety.
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Notice how no one touched this guys post. It's probably the most common problem suffered on this board.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was like you too before I kissed. Dude my first kiss, I almost sucked her lip off. She said stop. It was embarrassing oh well, I dated her for 10 months after that, it wasn't a big deal.

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even if you have social anxiety disorder you can still force yourself to talk to girls. it may be hard to do, but how do you plan to ever overcome it if you dont even try?

it will be worth it one day when you have a woman in your arms.

back to the original topic, your first kiss might not be a good one. if it is not good, she might even blame herself for it. theres a lot of variables involved. but the first girl you kiss probably won't be the one you marry anyways. so who cares?
 
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