"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Never assume that she's interested...

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Mantis Toboggan

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st_99 said:
I think the OP is just trying to figure out how to act yourself, not try to hard and get her off the pedestol because that
gives you the best chance.
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Looking at his posting history, I think the OP is just the average troll.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Both ways are stupid. If you assume she's interested you'll end up making moves and coming on strong when she's not yet showing interest. If you assume you'll fail you'll be nervous.

Here's a better way, just speak to the girl, and use your initiative to decide when she's interested or not as the interaction is going on.
 
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ImWithTheDJ said:
As a rule of thumb, always assume that shes not interested in you and that she just wants to be friend. When shes interested, she will let you know so assume the worst in all case. Once you realize that she doesn't have anything over you, you stop placing her on a pedestal and start talking/treating her just like everyone else which means INSTANT attractions.
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not true.. most women have 100000000000000000 dudes.. so they dnt have time to flirt with each and everyone they like so sometimes you have to make yourself known so she can give you a time slot to F her.. if you sit back and chill assuming she will not F you then you reducing your chances of Fing her by 75%
 
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