"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Never assume that she's interested...

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Mantis Toboggan

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st_99 said:
I think the OP is just trying to figure out how to act yourself, not try to hard and get her off the pedestol because that
gives you the best chance.
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Looking at his posting history, I think the OP is just the average troll.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Both ways are stupid. If you assume she's interested you'll end up making moves and coming on strong when she's not yet showing interest. If you assume you'll fail you'll be nervous.

Here's a better way, just speak to the girl, and use your initiative to decide when she's interested or not as the interaction is going on.
 
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ImWithTheDJ said:
As a rule of thumb, always assume that shes not interested in you and that she just wants to be friend. When shes interested, she will let you know so assume the worst in all case. Once you realize that she doesn't have anything over you, you stop placing her on a pedestal and start talking/treating her just like everyone else which means INSTANT attractions.
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not true.. most women have 100000000000000000 dudes.. so they dnt have time to flirt with each and everyone they like so sometimes you have to make yourself known so she can give you a time slot to F her.. if you sit back and chill assuming she will not F you then you reducing your chances of Fing her by 75%
 
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