"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Never alter your plans for a woman

cola

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You got balls? Want to cut the ****? Ask her if she wants to have sex with you tonight. If her interest level is high she will oblige. If it's low she'll play the feminist "male dog" card.

Game over. Because you refused to obey the rules.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DragonBlood i don’t know where you’re from but around these parts reputation is everything

This chick isn’t some random broad from the side of the street who’s number I’ve grabbed

She’s entwined in a few of my social circles and if come across as a weak desperate fool to her it will get relayed back to every other chick in the circle

Therefore you need to be slightly more strategic in matters

Sometimes you just got to look at the bigger picture

This girl knows what she’s doing that is pain stakingly obvious from the examples I’ve posted in this thread

what her end plan is i don’t know but I’m sure il find out pretty soon

in the mean time il be doing what a true DJ does best and thats not GIVING A FU*CKKKKKKK
 

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When you find women who are interested, they will want to get together a lot. You will quickly be inconvenienced and need to say "no". This is often a unique experience for men to learn how women act when they are not getting what THEY want.

In fact, the experience is so powerful that a man quickly realizes it is essential. It's part of setting the hook.

You can use those opportunities (exclusively) to let her know ways she can improve. It's only then that you have bargaining power. Make her jump through hoops.
 

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AttackFormation said:
The way you're handling this situation makes me happy as if I was the one doing it, it's like identifying with a character. Good job man.
I am onto this as well !

Not a single fukkk was given :cool:

Keep us posted
 
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