"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Never a Straight Answer!!!
- Thread starter Kaparski
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HeartlessBtch
Don Juan
Right on the money. We tend to hate when a man disposes of our time as they wish it's often like "Who the fck does he think he is?" coming to our minds.... Anyways try talking to her over the one, txt messages are confusing and that "ha" could have been given in many tones.Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Aight Shez Check this out.
I like your boldness...it's key to be a Don Juan.
Mistake #1
Don't ask her out in a text message. Use the phone.
Mistake #2
Don't ask a girl if she's doing anything on the day you want to take her out. She might just make up something so she doesn't look like a loser. Girls are wierd like that. Just assume that's she's not doing anything.
Tip #1
I always say to a girl "when are you free?" I've been doing this for about 2 weeks now and it's pure gold. I go out with new girls everytime I use these words.
People who are out in the field like you will get much more help from me. Hope this helps!
EDIT: "When Are You Free?"
