Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Never a Straight Answer!!!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HeartlessBtch

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Re: Re: Never a Straight Answer!!!

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
Aight Shez Check this out.

I like your boldness...it's key to be a Don Juan.

Mistake #1
Don't ask her out in a text message. Use the phone.

Mistake #2
Don't ask a girl if she's doing anything on the day you want to take her out. She might just make up something so she doesn't look like a loser. Girls are wierd like that. Just assume that's she's not doing anything.

Tip #1
I always say to a girl "when are you free?" I've been doing this for about 2 weeks now and it's pure gold. I go out with new girls everytime I use these words.

People who are out in the field like you will get much more help from me. Hope this helps! :p

EDIT: "When Are You Free?"
Right on the money. We tend to hate when a man disposes of our time as they wish it's often like "Who the fck does he think he is?" coming to our minds.... Anyways try talking to her over the one, txt messages are confusing and that "ha" could have been given in many tones.
 

MidnightResistance

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phone is also better, as it gives you a little warm up convo with her.
 

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The ball is in her court let her contact you. Stop the texting. It gives her to much power. If she calls answer, but tell her you are busy and that you will call her back later. Call her later and tell her about the bowling and drinks you had with your friend Erica.
 
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