“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OlympicTim

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Hey guys so theres this girl I work with who I find super hot.

Anyways we chat a bit at work, I wouldnt say shes interested in me but at the same time she seems to enjoy my company always smiles when im around or sees me coming and sometimes makes an effort to talk to me. Is it a bad idea to ask her to hangout without getting hints and stuff or should I wait until i can tell she is interested in me to ask her on a date
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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OlympicTim said:
Hey guys so theres this girl I work with who I find super hot.

Anyways we chat a bit at work, I wouldnt say shes interested in me but at the same time she seems to enjoy my company always smiles when im around or sees me coming and sometimes makes an effort to talk to me. Is it a bad idea to ask her to hangout without getting hints and stuff or should I wait until i can tell she is interested in me to ask her on a date
Get your answer asap and move forward or move on, waiting will have no positive effect.
 

OlympicTim

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I asked her if she wanted to hangout after both our shifts were done. She said she was "busy". Im assuming this is a no.

Its weird though I feel better having tried even though I got rejected and I dont think it will be weird between us since I was chill about it.
 

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Sounds like she was just being friendly and is not interested to hang out. At least you tried man. No harm in that.
 
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