"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys so theres this girl I work with who I find super hot.

Anyways we chat a bit at work, I wouldnt say shes interested in me but at the same time she seems to enjoy my company always smiles when im around or sees me coming and sometimes makes an effort to talk to me. Is it a bad idea to ask her to hangout without getting hints and stuff or should I wait until i can tell she is interested in me to ask her on a date
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OlympicTim said:
Hey guys so theres this girl I work with who I find super hot.

Anyways we chat a bit at work, I wouldnt say shes interested in me but at the same time she seems to enjoy my company always smiles when im around or sees me coming and sometimes makes an effort to talk to me. Is it a bad idea to ask her to hangout without getting hints and stuff or should I wait until i can tell she is interested in me to ask her on a date
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Get your answer asap and move forward or move on, waiting will have no positive effect.
 
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I asked her if she wanted to hangout after both our shifts were done. She said she was "busy". Im assuming this is a no.

Its weird though I feel better having tried even though I got rejected and I dont think it will be weird between us since I was chill about it.
 
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Sounds like she was just being friendly and is not interested to hang out. At least you tried man. No harm in that.
 
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