"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Networking - how to properly friend zone a chick.

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Social Circle is around 12 people excluding outer, connections.

TLDR - skip to bold.

Befriended one guy, who is a great chap and frequents that circle, does not socialize as much as others but is knowledgeable and is a passionate mechanic.
Red pill persona - we get along well, great to party with, has substance problems tho.

There are two more I do not know much about, but seem unimportant in the grand scheme, we often chat as a five in voice chat on evenings.

I took my 3 guys with me to meet another circle I had connections to for the first time some time ago, fun times.
There is a girl who is good long time friends with the red pill guy. One of my chaps asks me if I am on to something with her, otherwise he goes in. I tell him not to, since we need her as a connection.

Some weeks later a guy friend of her asks me on her behalf If I have someone or not ( are we still in kinder garden again xD ) and I am not to tell anyone about this since he was to probe that info covertly. He asked me how do I rate her 1-10 and stuff to which I blew him off like a chick, that I do not use a scale like that. He assured me I should go for it as she wants to fvck.

Well I would love your input on how to friend zone her properly. This is a delicate matter as I need her as connection to some " black market goods ", which she kindly provided since we have a good vibe.

If she was more of my type I would circumvent but I cannot really be bothered that much.
I assume I will just act permanently aloof and remove myself from her presence when I can, just like chicks did to me in the days of old. After some time I guess she will get the hint.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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