"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Networking - how to properly friend zone a chick.

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Social Circle is around 12 people excluding outer, connections.

TLDR - skip to bold.

Befriended one guy, who is a great chap and frequents that circle, does not socialize as much as others but is knowledgeable and is a passionate mechanic.
Red pill persona - we get along well, great to party with, has substance problems tho.

There are two more I do not know much about, but seem unimportant in the grand scheme, we often chat as a five in voice chat on evenings.

I took my 3 guys with me to meet another circle I had connections to for the first time some time ago, fun times.
There is a girl who is good long time friends with the red pill guy. One of my chaps asks me if I am on to something with her, otherwise he goes in. I tell him not to, since we need her as a connection.

Some weeks later a guy friend of her asks me on her behalf If I have someone or not ( are we still in kinder garden again xD ) and I am not to tell anyone about this since he was to probe that info covertly. He asked me how do I rate her 1-10 and stuff to which I blew him off like a chick, that I do not use a scale like that. He assured me I should go for it as she wants to fvck.

Well I would love your input on how to friend zone her properly. This is a delicate matter as I need her as connection to some " black market goods ", which she kindly provided since we have a good vibe.

If she was more of my type I would circumvent but I cannot really be bothered that much.
I assume I will just act permanently aloof and remove myself from her presence when I can, just like chicks did to me in the days of old. After some time I guess she will get the hint.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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