"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jmeh13

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Here is something to think about....

Consider all the girls you have messed around with! How many of those girls have "0" connections with you? How many of them were a complete stranger? A complete stranger is someone that has no friends in common at all. Vacations don't count. The number should be very very low because usually they know someone you know or know someone that knows someone you know.

I wanted to understand this more when I was on the cusp of breaking up with my long term girlfriend. I asked my friends and they sat and tried figuring up a girl that was a complete stranger. Usually every person had maybe one or two that were complete strangers but the majority of the girls had knew someone that knew them. I started realizing that I was extremely successful with women when I was single because I was amazing a networking.

I was nice to everyone. Ugly girls, *****es, douce bags... it didn't matter I always gave everyone the benefit of the doubt. It was a amazing I would go out to the bar and knew about 40% of the people there. I would walk around and get introduced to soooo many girls. I went home with a different girl each night.

So realizing I was getting close to ending things with my GF(x), I started networking like crazy and an amazing thing happend.....

When we broke up I set myself up for success! I have been pulling more girls than I ever have!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mahoney

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the more friends you have in life the better

this is one of the reasons i don't understand people that cut girls out of their life at the drop of a hat the whole time, or can't cope with female friends. these are people that are going to be introducing you to other people. its extremely advantageous to have a wide and varied social circile with different type of friendships at different levels of friendship
 
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Well you're stating the obvious. That is, the more people you know the more oppurtunity for hook ups. You can't meet someone sitting at home. Simple.
 
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this is bull**** tbh, ive had just as many girls from randoms with 0 connection then with mutual friends
 
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