"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Network your way to *****!

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jmeh13

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Here is something to think about....

Consider all the girls you have messed around with! How many of those girls have "0" connections with you? How many of them were a complete stranger? A complete stranger is someone that has no friends in common at all. Vacations don't count. The number should be very very low because usually they know someone you know or know someone that knows someone you know.

I wanted to understand this more when I was on the cusp of breaking up with my long term girlfriend. I asked my friends and they sat and tried figuring up a girl that was a complete stranger. Usually every person had maybe one or two that were complete strangers but the majority of the girls had knew someone that knew them. I started realizing that I was extremely successful with women when I was single because I was amazing a networking.

I was nice to everyone. Ugly girls, *****es, douce bags... it didn't matter I always gave everyone the benefit of the doubt. It was a amazing I would go out to the bar and knew about 40% of the people there. I would walk around and get introduced to soooo many girls. I went home with a different girl each night.

So realizing I was getting close to ending things with my GF(x), I started networking like crazy and an amazing thing happend.....

When we broke up I set myself up for success! I have been pulling more girls than I ever have!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mahoney

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the more friends you have in life the better

this is one of the reasons i don't understand people that cut girls out of their life at the drop of a hat the whole time, or can't cope with female friends. these are people that are going to be introducing you to other people. its extremely advantageous to have a wide and varied social circile with different type of friendships at different levels of friendship
 
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Well you're stating the obvious. That is, the more people you know the more oppurtunity for hook ups. You can't meet someone sitting at home. Simple.
 
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this is bull**** tbh, ive had just as many girls from randoms with 0 connection then with mutual friends
 
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