"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Net Dating Flaws Exposed

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-most net dating companies automatically RE-SIGN you up (without warning) when your membership expires, refunds are difficult to extract.

E-Harmony REJECTED over 1 million people last year or 1 out of every 5 people that sign up (that's 20%). Almost 500 timed questions to qualify. Reasons include but not limited to; anyone under the age of 22, people married more than 2 times, openly sexual persons, any signs of depression, inconsistent answers, etc.

MATCH-ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO GET A REFUND with these guys, they cancel memberships at the slightest infraction (like a derogatory email for chics that stalk you). Males are banned far more than females, meaning females can get away with a lot more.

ADULT FRIEND FINDER-competition is extremely high, a ton of fake date bait profiles, spamming, lots of married women, lesbians, obese, low self esteem chics.

ALT-freaks, cross dressers, pre-ops,post ops, weirdo's, sexual deviants, NUFF SAID.

PLENTY OF FISH-theres a reason why sites like this are free......the clientelle aint the greatest and they lack a lot of the frills that professional sites have. :moon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man you are just exposing flaws left and right today!

You should get the SoSuave "Geraldo Rivera" award. :rockon:
 
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Well, plentoffish is fine by me. I've had girls threaten to have me banned for saying they're a little too fat for me, or try to get some loser guy to tell me to stop messaging (after only one message) his (18 year old) "girlfriend" to which I tell him to "**** off." It's free and it's funny to engage in. Currently, I have this 19 year old self-professed virgin, shy and quiet, asian living about 20 miles from me, interested in me (we've messaged for almost 2 months). I keep calling her "too nice" and "shy" and that she needs to step out and take more risks in life. She keeps talking about safety. For instance, I told her that I was going out of town and she tells me to "drive safely" and "I just want your family to be safe (very bizzare text, I know, but English isn't her first lang so I forgive her or overlook the broken English - Never neg a woman's difficulty with English, they'll hate you for it - most foreigners hate Americans anyway)."

I sent her a virtual robot with a rose behind his back yesterday (rewarding her good (nice) behavior or trying to validate herself to me). I don't know, maybe because she's Asian this push/pull ying/yang is having a maximum effect on her. It's harder to enact push/pull on the liberated English women because they think all men are dog**** and easily wasted or expendable. It's good to see what a good loyal Asian woman will react to, even if it's over the net. I plan on banging her (being her first lay). I think that she thinks that I'm married. I still haven't told her that I'm not and one of her criteria is no married guys. She's definately got low self-esteem.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Man you are just exposing flaws left and right today?
*cough* AFC! *cough*
Serialized3 said:
You should get the SoSuave "Geraldo Rivera" award. :rockon:
:crackup: :up: :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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