"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Net Dating Flaws Exposed

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-most net dating companies automatically RE-SIGN you up (without warning) when your membership expires, refunds are difficult to extract.

E-Harmony REJECTED over 1 million people last year or 1 out of every 5 people that sign up (that's 20%). Almost 500 timed questions to qualify. Reasons include but not limited to; anyone under the age of 22, people married more than 2 times, openly sexual persons, any signs of depression, inconsistent answers, etc.

MATCH-ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO GET A REFUND with these guys, they cancel memberships at the slightest infraction (like a derogatory email for chics that stalk you). Males are banned far more than females, meaning females can get away with a lot more.

ADULT FRIEND FINDER-competition is extremely high, a ton of fake date bait profiles, spamming, lots of married women, lesbians, obese, low self esteem chics.

ALT-freaks, cross dressers, pre-ops,post ops, weirdo's, sexual deviants, NUFF SAID.

PLENTY OF FISH-theres a reason why sites like this are free......the clientelle aint the greatest and they lack a lot of the frills that professional sites have. :moon:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man you are just exposing flaws left and right today!

You should get the SoSuave "Geraldo Rivera" award. :rockon:
 
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Well, plentoffish is fine by me. I've had girls threaten to have me banned for saying they're a little too fat for me, or try to get some loser guy to tell me to stop messaging (after only one message) his (18 year old) "girlfriend" to which I tell him to "**** off." It's free and it's funny to engage in. Currently, I have this 19 year old self-professed virgin, shy and quiet, asian living about 20 miles from me, interested in me (we've messaged for almost 2 months). I keep calling her "too nice" and "shy" and that she needs to step out and take more risks in life. She keeps talking about safety. For instance, I told her that I was going out of town and she tells me to "drive safely" and "I just want your family to be safe (very bizzare text, I know, but English isn't her first lang so I forgive her or overlook the broken English - Never neg a woman's difficulty with English, they'll hate you for it - most foreigners hate Americans anyway)."

I sent her a virtual robot with a rose behind his back yesterday (rewarding her good (nice) behavior or trying to validate herself to me). I don't know, maybe because she's Asian this push/pull ying/yang is having a maximum effect on her. It's harder to enact push/pull on the liberated English women because they think all men are dog**** and easily wasted or expendable. It's good to see what a good loyal Asian woman will react to, even if it's over the net. I plan on banging her (being her first lay). I think that she thinks that I'm married. I still haven't told her that I'm not and one of her criteria is no married guys. She's definately got low self-esteem.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Man you are just exposing flaws left and right today?
*cough* AFC! *cough*
Serialized3 said:
You should get the SoSuave "Geraldo Rivera" award. :rockon:
:crackup: :up: :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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