"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi guys
I'm in a dilema. When I talk with girls online I can make them laugh and converse with them just fine. Offline is another story. I get very nervous and find it hard to come up with anything to say let alone make them laugh. What can I do to ease this nervous habit? It's killing my chances of hooking up with girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And how the hell do you know your making them laugh???...you can't hear them. Just cause i say LOL doesn't mean i'm laughing outloud.

You NEED to read the DJ bible http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Its a starting point for everyone who comes here.

Also some extra advice - You need to watch comedians, you need to talk to people, - and i mean all people. Women are people...if you have problems talking, you need to read the DJ bible and apply it and get out there off the internet and talk to people including pretty women of course. Good luck reading the bible.
 
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practice makes perfect

and the nervousness, learn to make spontaneous conversation with everybody
 
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Thanks guys, you are right I do need to get off the internet and get out there and talk with people. I have started to read the DJ bible.
 
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