"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi guys
I'm in a dilema. When I talk with girls online I can make them laugh and converse with them just fine. Offline is another story. I get very nervous and find it hard to come up with anything to say let alone make them laugh. What can I do to ease this nervous habit? It's killing my chances of hooking up with girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And how the hell do you know your making them laugh???...you can't hear them. Just cause i say LOL doesn't mean i'm laughing outloud.

You NEED to read the DJ bible http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Its a starting point for everyone who comes here.

Also some extra advice - You need to watch comedians, you need to talk to people, - and i mean all people. Women are people...if you have problems talking, you need to read the DJ bible and apply it and get out there off the internet and talk to people including pretty women of course. Good luck reading the bible.
 
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practice makes perfect

and the nervousness, learn to make spontaneous conversation with everybody
 
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Thanks guys, you are right I do need to get off the internet and get out there and talk with people. I have started to read the DJ bible.
 
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