"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi guys
I'm in a dilema. When I talk with girls online I can make them laugh and converse with them just fine. Offline is another story. I get very nervous and find it hard to come up with anything to say let alone make them laugh. What can I do to ease this nervous habit? It's killing my chances of hooking up with girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And how the hell do you know your making them laugh???...you can't hear them. Just cause i say LOL doesn't mean i'm laughing outloud.

You NEED to read the DJ bible http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Its a starting point for everyone who comes here.

Also some extra advice - You need to watch comedians, you need to talk to people, - and i mean all people. Women are people...if you have problems talking, you need to read the DJ bible and apply it and get out there off the internet and talk to people including pretty women of course. Good luck reading the bible.
 
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practice makes perfect

and the nervousness, learn to make spontaneous conversation with everybody
 
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Thanks guys, you are right I do need to get off the internet and get out there and talk with people. I have started to read the DJ bible.
 
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