"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nervous Or Not Interested

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Everytime I talk to this girl she says soemthing dumb , well she thinks it's dumb, she says sorry and then stops talking to me...

I don't maybe I don't laugh enough when she says something , or I don't know , stumped lol...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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extremely interested. When they act all silly and dumb, that is when you know they are falling hard.... is that what you wanted to hear, lol. More than likely that is the case and has been the case for me too, but you never know until you get out there and try to push. It sounds like she's talking and you're just listening, take some of the pressure off her and let her get to know you so she isn't so uptight being around you

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I think you should be able to recognize that she has interest you without asking the board. In this case, it should be pretty damn obvious lol.

PS: It's called G-R-A-M-M-A-R. Try it, you might pass english for the first time.
 
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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
I think you should be able to recognize that she has interest you without asking the board. In this case, it should be pretty damn obvious lol.

PS: It's called G-R-A-M-M-A-R. Try it, you might pass english for the first time.
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BWahahahahahahha. Thats funny...youre funny...you funny guy you.
 
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i get irritated when girls apologize too much, i feel pathetic. like they go i'm so sorry... sorry sorry... yadda sorry

so once i told a girl "can you please shut the hell up"

her jaw dropped open

hahahah

and guess what? she said sorry again. damn i could have slapped her

these sort of girls might be scared of you somewhat, (maybe cos you dont smile alot?) or they may be really shy and self concious as a result of liking you

i think shes jsut nervous in front of you.

anyways, all the best mate, gonna mug for the final year exam. bah, wont be around for abit..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks guys , I've never failed english =P.
Also I'm going to try to smile more haha
 
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