"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nervous Or Not Interested

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Everytime I talk to this girl she says soemthing dumb , well she thinks it's dumb, she says sorry and then stops talking to me...

I don't maybe I don't laugh enough when she says something , or I don't know , stumped lol...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Microphone Fiend

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extremely interested. When they act all silly and dumb, that is when you know they are falling hard.... is that what you wanted to hear, lol. More than likely that is the case and has been the case for me too, but you never know until you get out there and try to push. It sounds like she's talking and you're just listening, take some of the pressure off her and let her get to know you so she isn't so uptight being around you

One
 

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I think you should be able to recognize that she has interest you without asking the board. In this case, it should be pretty damn obvious lol.

PS: It's called G-R-A-M-M-A-R. Try it, you might pass english for the first time.
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
I think you should be able to recognize that she has interest you without asking the board. In this case, it should be pretty damn obvious lol.

PS: It's called G-R-A-M-M-A-R. Try it, you might pass english for the first time.
BWahahahahahahha. Thats funny...youre funny...you funny guy you.
 

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i get irritated when girls apologize too much, i feel pathetic. like they go i'm so sorry... sorry sorry... yadda sorry

so once i told a girl "can you please shut the hell up"

her jaw dropped open

hahahah

and guess what? she said sorry again. damn i could have slapped her

these sort of girls might be scared of you somewhat, (maybe cos you dont smile alot?) or they may be really shy and self concious as a result of liking you

i think shes jsut nervous in front of you.

anyways, all the best mate, gonna mug for the final year exam. bah, wont be around for abit..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks guys , I've never failed english =P.
Also I'm going to try to smile more haha
 
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