"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nervous...can't get it up???

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justsomeguy1984

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Okay, I've had this problem several times in my life. The first time I get naked with a girl, I'm usually really nervous and can't get it up. Being nervous causes too much blood to be pumped to your brain instead of your d!ck. Usually i'll need the girl to suck me off a little bit before I can get it up. This problem always goes away after the first couple times and I feel more comfortable with the girl, but still, it's a pretty embarrassing problem. I was wondering if anyone her has ever had a similar experience. It's very frustrating...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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try to sleep naked every night...it would help u..
 
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You aren't alone.. I was just like that my first time too.... very nervous and couldn't get wood.

Only thing different was I was with an escort, and I told her I was a virgin, and she understood. I made sure I got a gal that gave a GFE (Girlfriend Experience) so the first little while we just held each other in bed, and kissed. Didn't take long before I got relaxed and Mr. Happy got happy... lol!

But yeah, first time was nerve wracking for me in the beginning.
 
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lol, i dont mean to laugh at your problem guys, but the guy talking about the "escort" made me almost fall off my chair.. GFE? is that what they call it nowadays? LOL!

thanks for the laugh..

anyways, this prob will go away with experience and confidence.. know ur the king in the sack and nobody is better then u... :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The first couple times I'm with a girl I can get it up. But, it takes me forever to ***. I've had girls get pissed off while trying to make me *** for 45minutes after we have been going at it for awhile and it doesn't happen.
 
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