"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nervous...can't get it up???

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Okay, I've had this problem several times in my life. The first time I get naked with a girl, I'm usually really nervous and can't get it up. Being nervous causes too much blood to be pumped to your brain instead of your d!ck. Usually i'll need the girl to suck me off a little bit before I can get it up. This problem always goes away after the first couple times and I feel more comfortable with the girl, but still, it's a pretty embarrassing problem. I was wondering if anyone her has ever had a similar experience. It's very frustrating...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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try to sleep naked every night...it would help u..
 
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You aren't alone.. I was just like that my first time too.... very nervous and couldn't get wood.

Only thing different was I was with an escort, and I told her I was a virgin, and she understood. I made sure I got a gal that gave a GFE (Girlfriend Experience) so the first little while we just held each other in bed, and kissed. Didn't take long before I got relaxed and Mr. Happy got happy... lol!

But yeah, first time was nerve wracking for me in the beginning.
 
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lol, i dont mean to laugh at your problem guys, but the guy talking about the "escort" made me almost fall off my chair.. GFE? is that what they call it nowadays? LOL!

thanks for the laugh..

anyways, this prob will go away with experience and confidence.. know ur the king in the sack and nobody is better then u... :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The first couple times I'm with a girl I can get it up. But, it takes me forever to ***. I've had girls get pissed off while trying to make me *** for 45minutes after we have been going at it for awhile and it doesn't happen.
 
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