"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nervous around a girl, why?

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Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's wierd. I don't even get nervous when I consider a girl attractive. I only become nervous when I have feelings for her and like her personality. Then I start to mumble and my eye contact becomes weaker.
 
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Sacrifice said:
Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?
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"A more deeper specific about the subject"? What does that mean?

You get nervous because hot girls are a rare breed and you want something from them. Do you get nervous talking to a overweight girl or your friend? No, because you don't want anything from them, and if you did, you would know you could get it in 2 sec.

Hot girls have alot of choice and if you don't have good game, you won't have a chance.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Simple-you put more pressure on yourself. If you meet an uggo in the street and start talking, you probably wont care too much either way. If you meet an HB10 you will be under pressure to perform. Not just because you think she is better than you-even if you dont, you will still want her more as there arent many HB10 around!
 
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