"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nervous around a girl, why?

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Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's wierd. I don't even get nervous when I consider a girl attractive. I only become nervous when I have feelings for her and like her personality. Then I start to mumble and my eye contact becomes weaker.
 
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Sacrifice said:
Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?
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"A more deeper specific about the subject"? What does that mean?

You get nervous because hot girls are a rare breed and you want something from them. Do you get nervous talking to a overweight girl or your friend? No, because you don't want anything from them, and if you did, you would know you could get it in 2 sec.

Hot girls have alot of choice and if you don't have good game, you won't have a chance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Simple-you put more pressure on yourself. If you meet an uggo in the street and start talking, you probably wont care too much either way. If you meet an HB10 you will be under pressure to perform. Not just because you think she is better than you-even if you dont, you will still want her more as there arent many HB10 around!
 
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