"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nervous around a girl, why?

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Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tsmith2334

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It's wierd. I don't even get nervous when I consider a girl attractive. I only become nervous when I have feelings for her and like her personality. Then I start to mumble and my eye contact becomes weaker.
 

DonJuan11

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Sacrifice said:
Hi, i was wondering. Is it any threads why people start to act nervous when they are with a hot girl, or a girl they consider as hot? and start to mumbling++

A more deeper specific about the subject, than just "They consider them as hot, cuz they think they are more special than them" or "cuz they r putting them on the pedestal"-talk. is it A reason how/why their getting nervous? Or is only two reasons for it... those i mentioned?

"A more deeper specific about the subject"? What does that mean?

You get nervous because hot girls are a rare breed and you want something from them. Do you get nervous talking to a overweight girl or your friend? No, because you don't want anything from them, and if you did, you would know you could get it in 2 sec.

Hot girls have alot of choice and if you don't have good game, you won't have a chance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CrunchyNut

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Simple-you put more pressure on yourself. If you meet an uggo in the street and start talking, you probably wont care too much either way. If you meet an HB10 you will be under pressure to perform. Not just because you think she is better than you-even if you dont, you will still want her more as there arent many HB10 around!
 
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