"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Neil Strauss's THE GAME and RULES OF THE GAME
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Nay, most of his books are built around an inferior set of routines and materials that is based on nothing. Read the DJ Bible and work on yourself. If you lack friends and are considered socially awkward(not saying that you are), it's better to work on those feats instead of learning yourself a bunch of routines that will eventually come back and bite you in the ass.
DJ Bible and the Book of Pook are all you need. And practice, a lot of practice.
DJ Bible and the Book of Pook are all you need. And practice, a lot of practice.
Absolutely yes..
Great reads. His writing is impeccible. Everything from the word choice to the way the stories are laid out are incredible.
The game is a story - Rules of the Game is a handbook/guide. I would suggest the former over the latter; Rules of the Game is more for people that are really slow/dumb with women and need serious advice on how to get things rolling. But The Game is a must-read.... It walks you through Neil's life and his journey to becoming a man basically.
Great reads. His writing is impeccible. Everything from the word choice to the way the stories are laid out are incredible.
The game is a story - Rules of the Game is a handbook/guide. I would suggest the former over the latter; Rules of the Game is more for people that are really slow/dumb with women and need serious advice on how to get things rolling. But The Game is a must-read.... It walks you through Neil's life and his journey to becoming a man basically.
Agree about the DJ Bible. But I've found that books that give me examples, which I can then personalize, are just as helpful.SandHawk said:Nay, most of his books are built around an inferior set of routines and materials that is based on nothing. Read the DJ Bible and work on yourself. If you lack friends and are considered socially awkward(not saying that you are), it's better to work on those feats instead of learning yourself a bunch of routines that will eventually come back and bite you in the ass.
DJ Bible and the Book of Pook are all you need. And practice, a lot of practice.
The DJ Bible is like the Macro version, these are the overarching concepts, the routines type stuff is the micro, what to do in specific situations, and it gives a guy that isn't terribly creative a little bit of a base to work off of, and by extension a little bit of extra confidence.
I'm not a fan of following routines, but everyone needs some go to stuff in case they are stuck.
Just my personal experience, though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
i've got the book....its pretty good exposes all the other pua's lol
EvilAgenda
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"The Game" - entertaining read, more for fun than to learn anything.
"Rules" - never read it.
"Rules" - never read it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.