“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Neil Strauss "Style" On The View Video

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.
 

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I have been looking for this for ages

thanks dude

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"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

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good stuff.. I ve always wanted to see this guy in action.

His gf is hot btw
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Stud
he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.

That's because your straight.... hopefully
 

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Originally posted by Stud
he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.
You're right, he does come across that way. I wonder if he was metro before he started all of it, or if he started more serious and alpha-like like most of us.
 

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Yeh his body language was far from what I expected. It's things like that that looked a little camp. He's certainly nothing like I expected.

Anyone read his book? (as in I knew it existed but havn't seen it).


He was so clearly not wanting to explain negs to them ;)

Good stuff. Cheers for the link.

PS-his GF was nice but we're talking HB 8 maybie 8.5 if you saw her propperly but I'm guessing HB 8 no higher. Still nice chick and if someone as successful as Neil has stuck with her she must have a fantastic personality.
 

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I think for what she has going, she's a 10, looks, possibly 9.5. I've seen her in some other photos that I can't seem to find... I don't know about you fellas, but what do you expect with women?

Try to get personality and maybe you can find it in others :)
 

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I think for what she has going, she's a 10, looks, possibly 9.5. I've seen her in some other photos that I can't seem to find... I don't know about you fellas, but what do you expect with women?

Try to get personality and maybe you can find it in others :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sorry for the double post.

Yeah, she must have a good personality. Style is the man.
 

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take out 'the man' (there can only be one) and insert 'a MAN' (there can be more than one)

the HB scale is based on looks. Pure and simple. From what I saw there she's definately not an HB10 but she's in the 'go for it' range.


Like i was saying earlier she must have an awesome personality for Neil to give up the game. Maybies I'll meet her some day and tell you folks what I think.
 

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From that brief interview, I did learn something from Neil. I respect Neil the most out of every PUA, simply because he had to overcome his physical limitations as well as becoming Mystery's equal.

Does anyone know where to find out more on Style's methods?
 

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Originally posted by doctor
take out 'the man' (there can only be one) and insert 'a MAN' (there can be more than one)

the HB scale is based on looks. Pure and simple. From what I saw there she's definately not an HB10 but she's in the 'go for it' range.


Like i was saying earlier she must have an awesome personality for Neil to give up the game. Maybies I'll meet her some day and tell you folks what I think.
So what would you consider "HB10"? :rolleyes: I guess its all relative then. Because I would consider her a 10, at least 9 :)

Also, from reading his book and Mystery's new ebook...

I would say the majority of his techinques are from Mystery.. Most are outlined in the Mystery Method Venusian Arts handbook.
 

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In my books HB10 is very rare. HB9 is very exceptional. Very few celebrities make HB10 on my books. I've seen very few HB10s out there.

Mind you I'm a hard marker.

I've never read either 'The Game' or mystery's book(s?). How are they on inner game? and have they much interesting to say that I won't have met elsewhere?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i liked the game, it gave a good overview of the pua community and its beginnings, also a real life look into using the communities techniques
 

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style and juggler

hey guys, i can't remember how i found this link, but here is a video of style and juggler

http://www.charismasciences.com/

anyways does anyone feel like they just discovered the holy grail and then had it taken from them? this stuff all seems so main stream now, i feel like i have to work twice as hard now that all of the 'secrets' have been revealed
 

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My initial impression when I heard him talking was "Oh my god! If I ever met him in person, I'd think he is totally gay"

His voice and tone is very feminine.

However...

I think that could be a contributor to his success with women. Women always tend to love gay men, because they don't feel threatened by them.

Maybe thats how he succeeds. Women don't feel threatened by him at first, which gives him long enough to lay down some game.

I dont know, but I'm going to try the more subtle aproach a few times. FRs will be posted as usual...
 

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I bet he can use that "gayness" to his advantage. For those of you that know anything about mystery method, it COULD be an advantage because at first glance from a chick who is his target, it's an AUTOMATIC disqualifier! The chicks must be thinking, "This guy can't POSSIBLY be hitting on me, he's most definitely gay!" Then 7 hrs later after some DHVs and evolution phase shift, Style is doing his thing. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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