"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Neil Strauss "Style" On The View Video

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.
 

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I have been looking for this for ages

thanks dude

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"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

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good stuff.. I ve always wanted to see this guy in action.

His gf is hot btw
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Stud
he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.

That's because your straight.... hopefully
 

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Originally posted by Stud
he seems a lot gayer than what i had imagined. if i saw that dude and listened to him talk i would think he was just a common fag and not given him a second thought.
You're right, he does come across that way. I wonder if he was metro before he started all of it, or if he started more serious and alpha-like like most of us.
 

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Yeh his body language was far from what I expected. It's things like that that looked a little camp. He's certainly nothing like I expected.

Anyone read his book? (as in I knew it existed but havn't seen it).


He was so clearly not wanting to explain negs to them ;)

Good stuff. Cheers for the link.

PS-his GF was nice but we're talking HB 8 maybie 8.5 if you saw her propperly but I'm guessing HB 8 no higher. Still nice chick and if someone as successful as Neil has stuck with her she must have a fantastic personality.
 

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I think for what she has going, she's a 10, looks, possibly 9.5. I've seen her in some other photos that I can't seem to find... I don't know about you fellas, but what do you expect with women?

Try to get personality and maybe you can find it in others :)
 

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<img src="http://www.sfgate.com/c/pictures/2005/09/25/lv_single647_ward.jpg"/>

I think for what she has going, she's a 10, looks, possibly 9.5. I've seen her in some other photos that I can't seem to find... I don't know about you fellas, but what do you expect with women?

Try to get personality and maybe you can find it in others :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sorry for the double post.

Yeah, she must have a good personality. Style is the man.
 

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take out 'the man' (there can only be one) and insert 'a MAN' (there can be more than one)

the HB scale is based on looks. Pure and simple. From what I saw there she's definately not an HB10 but she's in the 'go for it' range.


Like i was saying earlier she must have an awesome personality for Neil to give up the game. Maybies I'll meet her some day and tell you folks what I think.
 

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From that brief interview, I did learn something from Neil. I respect Neil the most out of every PUA, simply because he had to overcome his physical limitations as well as becoming Mystery's equal.

Does anyone know where to find out more on Style's methods?
 

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Originally posted by doctor
take out 'the man' (there can only be one) and insert 'a MAN' (there can be more than one)

the HB scale is based on looks. Pure and simple. From what I saw there she's definately not an HB10 but she's in the 'go for it' range.


Like i was saying earlier she must have an awesome personality for Neil to give up the game. Maybies I'll meet her some day and tell you folks what I think.
So what would you consider "HB10"? :rolleyes: I guess its all relative then. Because I would consider her a 10, at least 9 :)

Also, from reading his book and Mystery's new ebook...

I would say the majority of his techinques are from Mystery.. Most are outlined in the Mystery Method Venusian Arts handbook.
 

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In my books HB10 is very rare. HB9 is very exceptional. Very few celebrities make HB10 on my books. I've seen very few HB10s out there.

Mind you I'm a hard marker.

I've never read either 'The Game' or mystery's book(s?). How are they on inner game? and have they much interesting to say that I won't have met elsewhere?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i liked the game, it gave a good overview of the pua community and its beginnings, also a real life look into using the communities techniques
 

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style and juggler

hey guys, i can't remember how i found this link, but here is a video of style and juggler

http://www.charismasciences.com/

anyways does anyone feel like they just discovered the holy grail and then had it taken from them? this stuff all seems so main stream now, i feel like i have to work twice as hard now that all of the 'secrets' have been revealed
 

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My initial impression when I heard him talking was "Oh my god! If I ever met him in person, I'd think he is totally gay"

His voice and tone is very feminine.

However...

I think that could be a contributor to his success with women. Women always tend to love gay men, because they don't feel threatened by them.

Maybe thats how he succeeds. Women don't feel threatened by him at first, which gives him long enough to lay down some game.

I dont know, but I'm going to try the more subtle aproach a few times. FRs will be posted as usual...
 

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I bet he can use that "gayness" to his advantage. For those of you that know anything about mystery method, it COULD be an advantage because at first glance from a chick who is his target, it's an AUTOMATIC disqualifier! The chicks must be thinking, "This guy can't POSSIBLY be hitting on me, he's most definitely gay!" Then 7 hrs later after some DHVs and evolution phase shift, Style is doing his thing. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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