You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your dating a Sista? Good for you homie. I now have new respect for you despite what they say about ya on this here forum.Originally posted by eternal
Funny, soon someone is gonna be posting on how me and my friend (white guys) steal the black girls (his wife and my girlfriend are black.)
"If your rap is crappy, her pussy ain't getting your tappy."
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ahh, yeah some do. I have one who is only 105lbs and if it wasn't for all the money she has I wouldn't be there. But those perks like driving her new suv for the last 3 months and her owning 3 houses and shyt make up for it.
Yeah. I would close the thread, but I want to see some of the replies. Hoping this pans out the way I think it will. If not, I'll lock it soon.Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
A Canuck pops his head in.......
What the f*ck is up with some of the language on here?
Negro, coloured? What the f*ck is that sh*t? That kinda language would get you bottled where I come from.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
) I think that racism is stupid and should be left back in the 20th century but unfortuanately it will never die out and we always have ethoncentric people.That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.