"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i recently started going out wit this girl i knew for awhile but now she always seems busy and neglectful and if i am left alone to my thoughts i start feening for her and she is not even losing no kind of sleep over me how do i get her to feen for me beg for my time and stuff like that i thought about not callin her to build tension but i need something to push her over the edge i am not a jerk but i just need that edge any advice would be appreciated thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You like her more than she likes you. You've probably been coming off as desperate and needy; stop doing that. You need to start withdrawing your attention from her. Start talking to other women and don't hide this from her. You have to show her that you don't need her.
 
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See other women and stop stressing over her. And use periods next time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i don't get on here that often and i forgot how to post something brand new so bare with me if this isn't it ...girls on my campus have stepped it up again. Me and alot of my friends good looking guys who get girls usually no homo have been simply hitting a girl up that we successfully got the number from with attraction and she will never respond. then the next time we see her we asked hey did you get my text or IM she says yeah and keeps it moving or changes the subject. its like this also for girls we been knew or been macking to and its frustrating because we want to know why the f#%k they are not responding where did we mess up at i kno women the most out of all my friends im the one they come to for advice and its got me baffled.
 
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GQzSwagStarFamous said:
i recently started going out wit this girl i knew for awhile but now she always seems busy and neglectful...
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I alway say that "I'm busy" from a woman is a FLAT OUT LIE.


If she was able to find the time to even began dating you in the first place,then she can also find time to continue dating you as well.




Here's my question to you about this girl: Does she eat?


You know,like food?



She does eat food,doesn't she? Or is she so busy with work,school,and whatever else she's got going on that she goes months and months at a time without having a single meal?



Well here's my take on this: If despite her hectic schedule she still finds time to eat,then she have dinner with you.



"I'm busy" is a LIE.



Even if it were true and she is busy,if she's attracted to and interested in you,SHE'D FIND THE TIME to spend with you.




I used to date a girl who once gave my the "I'm busy" line. It was alway like everytime I tried to see her,it was "I can't,I have to do this" or "I have to do that" or "I'm busy".




So one day I took some time to myself and just examined the relationship,and I found an error I have made. So I,on my own,I modified my behavior towards her,then just out of the blue she started wanting to see me again.




She would show up at my house like 30 min before she had class just to spend time with me.




She would make plans to hang out with me...DURING HER LUNCH BREAK FROM WORK.




"I'm busy" is a lie.



If she in the beginning wanted to be around you,then after dating a while,she suddenly "got busy" and makes excuse after excuse for not being about to see you,that mean HER ATTRACTION FOR YOU HAD DIMINISHED.




The good news is that this can be repaired,that is,if she's still in a relationship with you and you two are still seeing each other.




Just check out the info in my signature. Go to the bottom of this reply and click on the word "THIS!".




Read the info,then follow it EXACTLY. Do exactly what it says no matter HOW DIFFICULT it may seem.



If you can do it,it should flip things back in your favor.





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