"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i recently started going out wit this girl i knew for awhile but now she always seems busy and neglectful and if i am left alone to my thoughts i start feening for her and she is not even losing no kind of sleep over me how do i get her to feen for me beg for my time and stuff like that i thought about not callin her to build tension but i need something to push her over the edge i am not a jerk but i just need that edge any advice would be appreciated thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You like her more than she likes you. You've probably been coming off as desperate and needy; stop doing that. You need to start withdrawing your attention from her. Start talking to other women and don't hide this from her. You have to show her that you don't need her.
 
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See other women and stop stressing over her. And use periods next time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i don't get on here that often and i forgot how to post something brand new so bare with me if this isn't it ...girls on my campus have stepped it up again. Me and alot of my friends good looking guys who get girls usually no homo have been simply hitting a girl up that we successfully got the number from with attraction and she will never respond. then the next time we see her we asked hey did you get my text or IM she says yeah and keeps it moving or changes the subject. its like this also for girls we been knew or been macking to and its frustrating because we want to know why the f#%k they are not responding where did we mess up at i kno women the most out of all my friends im the one they come to for advice and its got me baffled.
 
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GQzSwagStarFamous said:
i recently started going out wit this girl i knew for awhile but now she always seems busy and neglectful...
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I alway say that "I'm busy" from a woman is a FLAT OUT LIE.


If she was able to find the time to even began dating you in the first place,then she can also find time to continue dating you as well.




Here's my question to you about this girl: Does she eat?


You know,like food?



She does eat food,doesn't she? Or is she so busy with work,school,and whatever else she's got going on that she goes months and months at a time without having a single meal?



Well here's my take on this: If despite her hectic schedule she still finds time to eat,then she have dinner with you.



"I'm busy" is a LIE.



Even if it were true and she is busy,if she's attracted to and interested in you,SHE'D FIND THE TIME to spend with you.




I used to date a girl who once gave my the "I'm busy" line. It was alway like everytime I tried to see her,it was "I can't,I have to do this" or "I have to do that" or "I'm busy".




So one day I took some time to myself and just examined the relationship,and I found an error I have made. So I,on my own,I modified my behavior towards her,then just out of the blue she started wanting to see me again.




She would show up at my house like 30 min before she had class just to spend time with me.




She would make plans to hang out with me...DURING HER LUNCH BREAK FROM WORK.




"I'm busy" is a lie.



If she in the beginning wanted to be around you,then after dating a while,she suddenly "got busy" and makes excuse after excuse for not being about to see you,that mean HER ATTRACTION FOR YOU HAD DIMINISHED.




The good news is that this can be repaired,that is,if she's still in a relationship with you and you two are still seeing each other.




Just check out the info in my signature. Go to the bottom of this reply and click on the word "THIS!".




Read the info,then follow it EXACTLY. Do exactly what it says no matter HOW DIFFICULT it may seem.



If you can do it,it should flip things back in your favor.





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