SoSuaveNinja
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Why are there so many Neggers on SoSuave? Does negging another poster make you "alpha"?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Neggers on SoSuave 08-30-2014 06:46 PM May_Day Here's another. You must be a lonely miserable sack of sh!t. I feel sorry for youGrewd said:You're at forum that is a gathering place for people who struggle, AFC means average FRUSTRATED chump. The frustration element is what you're seeing, it's a compensating tactic or defense mechanism. Making clever remarks is the more refined variation of negging, they don't yet know how to be that creative.
Speaking of that, does caring about it make you "alpha"?
PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Waiting for Jaylan and Backbreaker to step in "I actually agree with Sosuaveninja on this one..." haha
Yup. Its funny if you think about how back breaker and jaylan get along so well , but then they agree with and defend ninja.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Waiting for Jaylan and Backbreaker to step in "I actually agree with Sosuaveninja on this one..." haha
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Waiting for Jaylan and Backbreaker to step in "I actually agree with Sosuaveninja on this one..." haha
I have an easy fix for that... How about we close this thread? Everyone agree?backbreaker said:i don't even understand what the **** he's saying