"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Neg Hitting?

Confident1

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Should guys play hard to get? Isn't that neg-hitting?

I ask this because, to be honest, neg-hitting is something that has always come naturally to me. I have done it for as long as I have interacted with girls.

Now I think I neg-hit too much. That a lot of girls are intimidated by me, also I can't tell when to compliment a girl now, as they always think I am being sarcastic.

Another thing I have come across since the beginning of the summer is now girls know I am joking. One girl HB (what ever the hell that means) 9 says to her friend (an 8) not to listen to what I say because I am always joking (in regards to some neg-hit I laid on the 8)

Also, if I am interested in the 9 I try to play her friend off of her. Like I will hit on the 8 to make the 9 jealous, bad?

Thanks in advance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should guys play hard to get? Isn't that neg-hitting?
lol no thats not neg-hittin ...a neg-hit is use to destroy or disarm a ***** shield*hot bades(hb) 9 or 10* and if ur gonna try to hit on the 8 to get that 9 jealous make sure u get the 8 use kino on her infront of the 9(hug, whatever works) make sure u get her tho otherwise the 9 would just think your some kind of attention male who*re. Date the 8, go out with her, get a some satisfaction out of her while your at it. Then the 8 would be tellin the 9 what a wonderful lover you are. Its so amazin how far alittle jealousy will go if u know how to use it.
 

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ok maybe it's not neg-hitting but I thought neg-hitting is like making fun of them, that is what I have gathered from the bible, in which case it seems to me that you are playing hard to get.
 

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"Yo Bit*h, If I ever see you with another man, I'll drop yo a$$."

Funny imo when I am in an altered state of mind, not so much he thing to say. Use your judgement. Some chicks just want to be fu*k-buddies and neg-hitting will slow the process down.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok since this pertains to Neg Hitting and I did start this thread, I firgured I would ask another question.

So the latest quandry I have found myself in (I know I am incredibly self absorbed) is I constantly neg hit, like it is my way of communicating. The problem is I neg hit so much that I can get that spark when I first meet a girl (I think) but then I fall into the friendship category, never to return again. I know what I am doing (neg hitting wise) is right, but apparently I don't know WHEN??? to use it.

Thanks in advance.
 
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