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Neg hit if she's not stuck up?

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I met this girl who is not a total hottie but very cute probably an HB 7 or 8. She looks just like the original Marsha Brady. Very well educated, family oriented, wholesome type girl. The type of girl you marry. (she's never been married)

Here is the interesting part. She doesn't think she's pretty, she acts like she has no idea why a nice, charming guy like myself is spending time with her. So she's not stuck up in the least...

Do you guys think maybe she is one of those that you don't need to neg hit too much since she already has kind of a fragile self image? Like I said she's very sweet and down to earth so I really can't find a reason to neg hit...

Oh and she's really into me. Like i'm starting to worry that she might end up being a little on the clingy side...
 

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A neg hit is only used for an 8 or 9 who acts superior to you in order to make her feel insecure.

The girl you're talking about is already insecure and therefore a neg would be counterproductive.

Dish out just enough ****y & funny to get the job done. No negs unless she cops a major attitude.
 
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You don't' HAVE to neg hit anyone.

The whole concept of a neg is to make you realize that teasing girls and giving them backhanded comments won't outcast you.

If you feel like a neg is appropriate, do it, if not, then don't.

You don't want to be going around looking at women and first thing popping up into your mind is "okay so how should i neg her"
 
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Standard PUA mantra: "If something works, keep doing it."
 
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I met this girl who is not a total hottie but very cute probably an HB 7 or 8. She looks just like the original Marsha Brady. Very well educated, family oriented, wholesome type girl. The type of girl you marry. (she's never been married)

Here is the interesting part. She doesn't think she's pretty, she acts like she has no idea why a nice, charming guy like myself is spending time with her. So she's not stuck up in the least...

Do you guys think maybe she is one of those that you don't need to neg hit too much since she already has kind of a fragile self image? Like I said she's very sweet and down to earth so I really can't find a reason to neg hit...

Oh and she's really into me. Like i'm starting to worry that she might end up being a little on the clingy side...

These types of girls you don't neg hit on.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok. Just wanted to make sure my thoughts were in line with everyone elses on this.:up:
 
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Do not neg insecure girls :up:, negs are made to make them more insecure, thrust me she will not be happy when you do...
 
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Sun Tzu said:
A neg hit is only used for an 8 or 9 who acts superior to you in order to make her feel insecure.

The girl you're talking about is already insecure and therefore a neg would be counterproductive.

Dish out just enough ****y & funny to get the job done. No negs unless she cops a major attitude.
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Good Post
 
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Alright, I have to ask why do negs seem to be so popular that guys consider using them on any women? Is it that it's easier for guys to interact with women in a manner that's similar to how we act with one another? Think about it, how often do you sling negs at your buds.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Think about it, how often do you sling negs at your buds.
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All the time!

I have used negs with great results for spoiled little immature hotties but this girl is different. I've been ****y and funny with her and teased her a little from the get go but I haven't done any neg hits, and don't plan to unless she starts acting spoiled :nono:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Neg hits are often misunderstood. Mystery initially came up with the theory of negs for SHB9 and 10s in CLUBS. It is for defeating b1tch shields, and these are on full force in clubs. You've said this chick is "not stuck up in the least" and has "a fragile self image". Using neg hits is the last thing you need to do - it will come across jerk-like, odd and risk making her dislike you.

I can't tell from your post whether you have made a move on this chick, but you should do that soon (try to kiss her and then escalate), to avoid falling into the friend zone.
 
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JJMcLure said:
I can't tell from your post whether you have made a move on this chick, but you should do that soon (try to kiss her and then escalate), to avoid falling into the friend zone.
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Already been done my man :up:
 
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