"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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neg her for not remembering me or saving my number?

pikachu69

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if you are going for a 1st date with a girl who you met but she didn't save your name to your number and doesn't remember your name but during the 1st convo on the phone you raised IL and now she's excited to see you, should u still neg her for not remembering saving? if so, what would be a good neg?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smartone84

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short of a small joke about it, dont play any games on a first date. You pull negs during the club/initial pickup stages. Thats common sense these days

You got her coming on a date so you're past that. Good luck buddy
 

Dedication

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Your ego wants to neg her but its better if you never bring that subject up or else it might seem that you are insecure about it. If the topic ever comes up and only because she brought it up as a sh1t test, then you can say something silly about it, like: I bet you forget names all the time, you're probably not so very good at meeting new people. If this is done correctly then she should be qualifying for you again and the power is back ;)
 
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