if you are going for a 1st date with a girl who you met but she didn't save your name to your number and doesn't remember your name but during the 1st convo on the phone you raised IL and now she's excited to see you, should u still neg her for not remembering saving? if so, what would be a good neg?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
neg her for not remembering me or saving my number?
- Thread starter pikachu69
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Smartone84
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short of a small joke about it, dont play any games on a first date. You pull negs during the club/initial pickup stages. Thats common sense these days
You got her coming on a date so you're past that. Good luck buddy
You got her coming on a date so you're past that. Good luck buddy
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Your ego wants to neg her but its better if you never bring that subject up or else it might seem that you are insecure about it. If the topic ever comes up and only because she brought it up as a sh1t test, then you can say something silly about it, like: I bet you forget names all the time, you're probably not so very good at meeting new people. If this is done correctly then she should be qualifying for you again and the power is back 