if you are going for a 1st date with a girl who you met but she didn't save your name to your number and doesn't remember your name but during the 1st convo on the phone you raised IL and now she's excited to see you, should u still neg her for not remembering saving? if so, what would be a good neg?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
neg her for not remembering me or saving my number?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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short of a small joke about it, dont play any games on a first date. You pull negs during the club/initial pickup stages. Thats common sense these days
You got her coming on a date so you're past that. Good luck buddy
You got her coming on a date so you're past that. Good luck buddy
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Your ego wants to neg her but its better if you never bring that subject up or else it might seem that you are insecure about it. If the topic ever comes up and only because she brought it up as a sh1t test, then you can say something silly about it, like: I bet you forget names all the time, you're probably not so very good at meeting new people. If this is done correctly then she should be qualifying for you again and the power is back 