"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Neg A Girl?

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I read mystery method now and it's a little complicating. I'm still not quite clear was is neg. I kind of know what it is, but I am too clear on it. Is it like ****y and funny? By the way, I heard some David D's criticizers said that c & f doesn't last a guy very long on being successful. I hope this isn't true because I've been practice ****y and funny for long time, and starting all over on learning will suck.
Well anyways, can any gave few examples of negs so I could see the whole idea of it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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john_1234

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just like yourself, i placed a lot of emphasis on ****y/funny. even david d. himself said in his advanced series that "there is no limit" to ****y/funny. from trial and error, i learned there is a limit. the advanced series is great, but i think it's flawed how david d. places enormous weight on the c/f idea. you can use c/f and neg's every now and then, but it should not be your main focus. instead, focus should be placed on body language, voice tone, rapport, and conversation. i realize i didn't answer your question, but this is based on my personal experiences. is there anyone out there who takes c/f to the all out extent and is consistently successful?
 

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A summation of the Mystery Method Neg Theory:

A neg just breaks through the b*itch shield, and is a disqualifier used on a hot girl to help you slip under the radar. She should think you aren't really hitting on her. Examples

"Hands of the merchandise"
"You blink a lot"
"Is she always like this, where's her off button" - said to her friends.

The idea of a neg is to throw and go. Meaning don't wait for a response, continue talking.

Negs are most useful on girls who think they are too good for you: Usually the hottest girls.
 

Soprano

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nice sweater, it makes your body look normal




only neg really hot girls
 

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I usually neg hit a girl when I feel the timing is right. I dunno about C+F as I use raringly those objects as I'm not naturally a funny person.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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