"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DogFashionDisco

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Ok, well I'm going to this concert with a chick I sort of know but not really. I'm pretty sure there's gonna be quite a few people from my school there, as well as some other people I barely know. The bands that are playing suck, really bad, except for one which is mediocre. The real reason I'm going to the concert is to either get some interest from this chick or one of her friends (her friends are really good looking). This chick seems to be somewhat into me, however she is the kind of chick that everyone tells her how pretty she is. Same with her friends.

Oh, and they're SCENE kids.


I'm pretty pumped, but at the same time scared. I mean come on, this is a group of some totally hot chicks.

Anyone got any advice for me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey man, jus chill out, dont let them be above you, dont let them catch you staring at them unless you know there interested, an play it cool!
 

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actually, that's not my problem. Last time I went to a concert, I saw that chick there with her friends, and they were all staring at me. Hell they were even trying to get close to me. I was moshing for a few minutes, then I jumped out cause I was tired, I actually caught one of them standing right next to me. haha I even looked at one of them for like 2 seconds and she looked away. she was intimidated! lol


but seriously, my problem isn't them being hot, I don't have a problem with that. my problem is starting a conversation with a group of hot chicks. I may not look intimidated around them, but it's hard to make funny jokes around hot chicks for me. :(

but then again, last time I had 2 other friends with me, who were friends with the group, therefore that might've gotten me some edge from them.
 
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