"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

neeeeed advice

DogFashionDisco

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2005
Messages
296
Reaction score
0
Ok, well I'm going to this concert with a chick I sort of know but not really. I'm pretty sure there's gonna be quite a few people from my school there, as well as some other people I barely know. The bands that are playing suck, really bad, except for one which is mediocre. The real reason I'm going to the concert is to either get some interest from this chick or one of her friends (her friends are really good looking). This chick seems to be somewhat into me, however she is the kind of chick that everyone tells her how pretty she is. Same with her friends.

Oh, and they're SCENE kids.


I'm pretty pumped, but at the same time scared. I mean come on, this is a group of some totally hot chicks.

Anyone got any advice for me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

JayUK

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2005
Messages
85
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
England, i wish FLORIDA!
hey man, jus chill out, dont let them be above you, dont let them catch you staring at them unless you know there interested, an play it cool!
 

DogFashionDisco

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2005
Messages
296
Reaction score
0
actually, that's not my problem. Last time I went to a concert, I saw that chick there with her friends, and they were all staring at me. Hell they were even trying to get close to me. I was moshing for a few minutes, then I jumped out cause I was tired, I actually caught one of them standing right next to me. haha I even looked at one of them for like 2 seconds and she looked away. she was intimidated! lol


but seriously, my problem isn't them being hot, I don't have a problem with that. my problem is starting a conversation with a group of hot chicks. I may not look intimidated around them, but it's hard to make funny jokes around hot chicks for me. :(

but then again, last time I had 2 other friends with me, who were friends with the group, therefore that might've gotten me some edge from them.
 
Top