"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Needs to be mentioned about POF.

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Solomon said:
are you speaking from experince cause you are or are NOT a good looking guy?

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I'm very good looking. My last two girlfriends would sit their and tell me how perfect I am, and go into detail, especially about my face.

I see girls look at me all the time.

But lately I've been socially awkward, due to lack of confidence, due to lack of mastering myself, my emotions, and putting in work to better myself, school, or work.

You can skate by on looks only so much, you have to work on yourself internally, and keep yourself in check mentally.

Looks I guess can be good, but they are not a deal breaker by any means.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solomon said:
are you speaking from experince cause you are or are NOT a good looking guy?

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well i will be honest most females either love me or hate me in looks i am not the guy that all females like but i do have good luck with females i think are cute.... I would only feel ugly if i had to settle for ugly or fat women.

i always date and F and have relationships with HB8s to HB9s..
 
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