"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Needs to be mentioned about POF.

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Solomon said:
are you speaking from experince cause you are or are NOT a good looking guy?

:crackup:
I'm very good looking. My last two girlfriends would sit their and tell me how perfect I am, and go into detail, especially about my face.

I see girls look at me all the time.

But lately I've been socially awkward, due to lack of confidence, due to lack of mastering myself, my emotions, and putting in work to better myself, school, or work.

You can skate by on looks only so much, you have to work on yourself internally, and keep yourself in check mentally.

Looks I guess can be good, but they are not a deal breaker by any means.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

DonGorgon

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Solomon said:
are you speaking from experince cause you are or are NOT a good looking guy?

:crackup:
well i will be honest most females either love me or hate me in looks i am not the guy that all females like but i do have good luck with females i think are cute.... I would only feel ugly if i had to settle for ugly or fat women.

i always date and F and have relationships with HB8s to HB9s..
 
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