Needs to be mentioned about POF.

[HumbleNinja]

In regards to POF and anyone who uses it.

You can have the best written profile.

You can have your best pictures up.

You can send unique funny or serious openers even mentioning things in chicks profiles.

But...

If you aren't cut up. With a six pack. Showing it off at the beach or a gym. And aren't for the most part 6ft in height with a tattoo or more..

You instantly become much less "funny", or in demand and online "dating" will be much more of a waste of time for you unless you put your standards in the gutter and go for all out whales..even then it could be difficult. The better you look according to the competitions bar that has been set by online dating women..the funnier you are, easier it is to get numbers, meets and lays.

You have to realize that women online not only get countless emails and sort through them by looks as they have no time to read them all. But you need to do a quick search to see how your own "Comp" stands up.

If you see several dudes who are jacked, tatted up, and are over 6ft. This is the bar almost all women online set for themselves on who they are most likely to give their numbers to. Meet up with. And fvck. (Especially since these same dudes are emailing them. All the rest of you are delete material.)

Even if you do meet some and fvck them. Do not expect them at all no matter what they say to not go back online looking for better.

Like Nismo said in the past. And it is completely true: A man's online dating profile is only as strong as his worst picture.

These same women online do not in the least really care if the "God" dude is out banging several women and they know it. They'll "Complain" about it even to them. But these are the types online women flock to in droves and get off on the negative emotions it brings them as they want to win that challenge and show off their "prize" to their friends or move on to get pump and dumped by the next best thing.

Women online don't really care about what you've accomplished in life. As most of them have accomplished nothing but getting fvked and chucked by the hottest dudes who they get some ego inflation off of as a quick deranged validation "fix".

I cannot stress enough that women who use online dating are the absolute worst women you could ever "hope" to have anything at all serious with let alone a relationship. They ALL have serious baggage and if you can should only treat them how every other dude who isn't a completely clueless clown shoe treats them: As the local mattress and not wifey material at all.

You've been warned.

 

[skinnyguy]

POF is a conundrum for guys.

If you're ripped/jacked, why the hell would you go on POF? That website just has ugly fatties with 2 kids. If you're that good looking, you can walk into any club in America and have 20+ offers for sex.

 

[HumbleNinja]

POF is a conundrum for guys.

If you're ripped/jacked, why the hell would you go on POF? That website just has ugly fatties with 2 kids. If you're that good looking, you can walk into any club in America and have 20+ offers for sex.

No it's not all fatties depending on where you live. There are a lot of pretty good looking chicks but they're all fvcked in the head. And there are real jacked tatted up dudes who are raking in the chicks. To them it's an extra side thing to bang out easy slvts.

Trust they know the deal. The chicks know the deal too. Everyone fakes it in profiles.

I read Solomon talking about his friend. I'd guarantee his friend if cut up and damn good looking over the comp in their area is getting tons of chicks.

Most dudes have no clue and think the chicks are all fake if good looking. (some are) but no where near all. The chicks who are good looking are ex myspace hoes, instagram wh9res, ex craigslist/ flakebook sloots etc. who are looking to "date" the best looking thinking they'll snag them a trophy the online shopping way.

I read the tinder thread and I think that will take over quick. I'd bet a lot of the POF chicks have tinder accounts.

this is "dating" for those types of chicks.

 

[FairShake]

I'm not cut up with a six pack, barely have the time to get to the beach and have no tattoos. But I've gotten laid off of plenty of fish.

In addition to girls who are just hooking up with the guy with the hottest picture, there are quite a few single moms without the time to go out and meet guys at the club or at bars. There are also some very type a girls who own their own businesses or work in corporate who want something completely different from their own workday. There are some cute but introverted Asian and Indian girls. All of these type of girls can be gamed.

It's a very diverse dating site. Keep looking, put your best pics out there, and be patient. It's a numbers game.

 

[Solomon]

POF is a conundrum for guys.

If you're ripped/jacked, why the hell would you go on POF? That website just has ugly fatties with 2 kids. If you're that good looking, you can walk into any club in America and have 20+ offers for sex.

^^This, guys I know who are ripped/jacked don't need POF cause their already pulling tons of tail IRL

srs

The buddy ninja talked about didn't have a 6 pack but he was in good shape anyway he use to play semi-pro Hockey and he had aesthetic face.

It's like a hot chick going to anmie convention to pull a guy just doesn't make sense

I do know a buddy who goes on POF to pull rich old white ladies who is jacked but he does it for $$$ not *****

 

[HalfAddict]

POF is a ****show if you are looking for anything other than pump & dumps/flakes.

Just recently tried my hand at it, lasted for about two weeks, a few flakes and a whole lotta fluff talk n no action.

I'm lookin for a wing in Oklahoma City. :crackup:

 

[Wolfgang D]

When I was doing online dating some years back, I decided to do a test after a while. I set up a fake ad that said pretty much the same thing as my real ad, but I added a picture of a very goodlooking guy from HotOrNot at the beach. Then I used that ad to simply visit women's ads, without writing to them.

Boy, did I get messages. All of a sudden the women who hadn't written back to my real ad were writing to this one, thinking that the ad sounded funny and insightful, commenting on various parts. Wow, I thought. If only this had been real.


But the goodlooking guy in the picture did not have any tattoos. I'm not sure why you think a guy must have tattoos, Humble. In my view that is more of a minus than a plus; it signals that you latch on to fads, and that you try to sell yourself through artificial means.

 

[skinnyguy]

When I was doing online dating some years back, I decided to do a test after a while. I set up a fake ad that said pretty much the same thing as my real ad, but I added a picture of a very goodlooking guy from HotOrNot at the beach. Then I used that ad to simply visit women's ads, without writing to them.

Boy, did I get messages. All of a sudden the women who hadn't written back to my real ad were writing to this one, thinking that the ad sounded funny and insightful, commenting on various parts. Wow, I thought. If only this had been real.


But the goodlooking guy in the picture did not have any tattoos. I'm not sure why you think a guy must have tattoos, Humble. In my view that is more of a minus than a plus; it signals that you latch on to fads, and that you try to sell yourself through artificial means.

LOL.

I think tattoos are a big plus for some guys, because it makes them look tough. Like you must have been through something in life to get those tattoos. This is why ex-convicts clean up with women. They take risks and have alpha status.
Now, many people will say "only low class, cheap wh0res fall for that". But even professional women now like men with tattoos because they are bored of seeing all the pretty boys at the office.

 

[mbas44]

Reading this thread and having experinced a few girls from OKC, it is amazing how on point you guys are. Not only that, but it unfortunately is making me more and more cynical. The reality of the situation and the way girls are now after having been out of dating for a long time is a real slap in the face and I have to admit somewhat disturbing. You can see this type of behavior on facebook, these girls posting "selfies" every other day and getting 500 likes and 60 comments from "friends" about how beautiful they are. Its disgusting to me.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

I definitely have to co-sign for this thread.

Most girls who are even below average won't really reply back to you or will flake on your messages.

I've been dabbling in POF and OKC and it's honestly a huge time investment to get anything close to getting a normal girl.

Most of these girls are awkward, fat/overweight or have some emotional problems.

 

[betheman]

OP is spot on! thats the game boys, thats what it is with online dating, anyone who has any kind of romantic notions regarding online is deluded, sure there are women looking for love, but in the meantime, until it comes along, they will take many a pounding along the way

 

[Solomon]

Reading this thread and having experinced a few girls from OKC, it is amazing how on point you guys are. Not only that, but it unfortunately is making me more and more cynical. The reality of the situation and the way girls are now after having been out of dating for a long time is a real slap in the face and I have to admit somewhat disturbing. You can see this type of behavior on facebook, these girls posting "selfies" every other day and getting 500 likes and 60 comments from "friends" about how beautiful they are. Its disgusting to me.

What's worse is that it's starting to become "normal" and accepted and women are not being held accountable at all for their actions. They want a guy who is perfect in every way but most of these women don't bring jackshyt to the table.

OP is spot on! thats the game boys, thats what it is with online dating, anyone who has any kind of romantic notions regarding online is deluded, sure there are women looking for love, but in the meantime, until it comes along, they will take many a pounding along the way

2 years ago I said the same thing, and WHiteKnights came up and said that there were quality women online and just busy IRL

that's b.s. I have tons of single women friends who never have or would use online dating tehy don't need too

I definitely have to co-sign for this thread.

Most girls who are even below average won't really reply back to you or will flake on your messages.

I've been dabbling in POF and OKC and it's honestly a huge time investment to get anything close to getting a normal girl.

Most of these girls are awkward, fat/overweight or have some emotional problems.

This is why meeting women IRL is so much easier, I can't get a 5 on POF but i can get dates with 7+'s IRL

Ironic

 

[betheman]

This is why meeting women IRL is so much easier, I can't get a 5 on POF but i can get dates with 7+'s IRL

Ironic

its also more of a buzz, less frustrating, clearer outcomes and more efficient

 

[Wolfgang D]

Reading this thread and having experinced a few girls from OKC, it is amazing how on point you guys are. Not only that, but it unfortunately is making me more and more cynical. The reality of the situation and the way girls are now after having been out of dating for a long time is a real slap in the face and I have to admit somewhat disturbing. You can see this type of behavior on facebook, these girls posting "selfies" every other day and getting 500 likes and 60 comments from "friends" about how beautiful they are. Its disgusting to me.

This is true: women thinking they can behave however they like in the dating process. I mean, forget that it's about dating for a while. If you promise someone something, you stick to that, you don't break your promise. If you set a time to meet, you do that only if you really intend to show up. The other person will adapt his schedule to you, and get his hopes up. And yet girls nowadays cancel on a date seemingly without being the least bit concerned.

This is definitely a result of a lack of discipline in schools today. I have heard examples from older people about how you would always keep your promise in the past. If you said you would show up for some group activity for example, you would show up even if you were sick that day. People were true to their word, they did not cancel just because they felt like it.

People were also modest. They were taught not to go looking for attention, and there was a general attitude that if you sought attention you would not turn out right. Then came the 1960s hippies-turned-teachers, who were going to "change society", and they did. They took over the teacher's corps and changed the classrooms. They told students that they were all great, that there were "no right answers" and everyone was equally right. That a majority vote could change reality. That everyone was a precious snowflake before they had made the least bit of effort. That if they were loud and obnoxious in order to get attention, they would get it, and they would never be punished for their behavior.

This lack of sticking to a promise, and the attention-seeking, appear in far too many men too. But definitely much more so in women.

LOL.

I think tattoos are a big plus for some guys, because it makes them look tough. Like you must have been through something in life to get those tattoos. This is why ex-convicts clean up with women. They take risks and have alpha status.
Now, many people will say "only low class, cheap wh0res fall for that". But even professional women now like men with tattoos because they are bored of seeing all the pretty boys at the office.

Ex-convicts clean up with ... a certain kind of women, because they are ex-convicts and belong to the same circles as those women. Not because of their tattoos.

 

[Zarky]

ya'll are replying to a PUAhate troll

FYI

 

[evan12]

ya'll are replying to a PUAhate troll

FYI

this time PUAhate has a a point , a lot of women use online dating as a meat market just like men !.

 

[Wolfgang D]

It is fun to read PUAHate once in a while. That forum is spot on when it comes to the hack Flowing-Armpits Rooshy, for example. But of course, there are also a lot of people there who can't get anywhere with women and who bash the advisers as a result.

I don't think any of the criticism on PUAHate applies to SoSuave, though. SS is different from the sites that try to sell you classes about how to "sarge" by using tricks. Even the terminology is different. I know that the healthy advice at SS works, because it certainly helped me, and others too.

 

[countwoofoolah]

Reading this thread and having experinced a few girls from OKC, it is amazing how on point you guys are. Not only that, but it unfortunately is making me more and more cynical. The reality of the situation and the way girls are now after having been out of dating for a long time is a real slap in the face and I have to admit somewhat disturbing. You can see this type of behavior on facebook, these girls posting "selfies" every other day and getting 500 likes and 60 comments from "friends" about how beautiful they are. Its disgusting to me.

repped

 

[DonGorgon]

yes looks is 99% of the game both on and off line.. you can get lucky with out looks but it will be much harder and take longer cost more and you will tend tok get lower quality females..

 

[Solomon]

yes looks is 99% of the game both on and off line.. you can get lucky with out looks but it will be much harder and take longer cost more and you will tend tok get lower quality females..

are you speaking from experince cause you are or are NOT a good looking guy?

:crackup: