Black Widow Void
Master Don Juan
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Through a lot of trial and error ,introspection and tips through this board, I've learned and improved a h*ll of a lot on my game. My biggest downfall though is being way too direct. I've never cared for ambiguity and therefor always strive to communicate with completeness. This always drops my desirability factor a few notches with women. Luckily, I usually (not always) have a few other areas in which works to my advantage.
Today, I got an e-mail from a woman that I've been seeing for quite some time. With her, I quickly noticed a few of my past mistakes. What I mean is... although not since my teens have I placed any woman on a pedestal, I probably do just as bad because I am quick to offer praise when their behavior is positive. As a repeated pattern, these resembling humble women end up getting full of themselves. I claim the problem because I now realize that manufactured the monster. Okay, I'm much better at that these days, but could still practice up.
Back to the original subject. I absolutely suck at being vague or ambiguous. Today though, I struck gold! Unfortunately, my intentional vagueness was a result of having time to think before replying to her e-mail. This drove her Frickin' nuts! As I've learned over the past couple of weeks with her, I'm now giving 20 percent and receiving 80 percent. If I could learn to master the art of being mysterious and vague, I know that my game would drastically improve more than it already has.
Any tips on how to better integrate this into my image or any free websites that you'd recommend?
Today, I got an e-mail from a woman that I've been seeing for quite some time. With her, I quickly noticed a few of my past mistakes. What I mean is... although not since my teens have I placed any woman on a pedestal, I probably do just as bad because I am quick to offer praise when their behavior is positive. As a repeated pattern, these resembling humble women end up getting full of themselves. I claim the problem because I now realize that manufactured the monster. Okay, I'm much better at that these days, but could still practice up.
Back to the original subject. I absolutely suck at being vague or ambiguous. Today though, I struck gold! Unfortunately, my intentional vagueness was a result of having time to think before replying to her e-mail. This drove her Frickin' nuts! As I've learned over the past couple of weeks with her, I'm now giving 20 percent and receiving 80 percent. If I could learn to master the art of being mysterious and vague, I know that my game would drastically improve more than it already has.
Any tips on how to better integrate this into my image or any free websites that you'd recommend?