"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Needing sum Kino Techniques for Coffee Date

Hoogie

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I've been studying Kino a lot lately cause i really think it is the edge I need in my game.

But I've been thinking and I can't think of any ways to use Kino in a "Kino Escalation" kinda way for a coffee date.

I dont want to go in too hardcore so I think anything to do with feet may not go down to well.... I was thinking maybe sumthing suttle with hands, but I'm not sure what... and suggestions?

Cheers :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sooooooo no replies.... does that mean no1 has any techniques or its just so simple no1 can b bothered posting??
 

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I'm going to tell you the best way to begin Kino, and lays down the groundwork, it saves a lot of those 'err, uhh' phases.

When you see her, open your arms and give her a hug.
 

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A good kino technique if you can work it in a relaxed, sincere way is to replace a strand of hair behind her ear or remove a piece of fluff from her clothes or something. This is a subconscious boyfriend technique. Also act and feel like her boyfriend (but dont say it obviously!!) and she'll tend to warm to the idea and decide that you've 'clicked'. Be lighthearted and fun and make a few gentle non-sexual touches. Just be warned about that girlfriend acting and feeling thing. It works! You wanna make sure that you want to be stuck with her for a few years!!
 

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A good kino technique if you can work it in a relaxed, sincere way is to replace a strand of hair behind her ear
ok so lets say i'm talking to her and this happens.

Me:so how as your day?
her: blah blah blah
Me: uh huh, uh huh *nod a lot* then say....don't move! *move piece of hair that was in front her face to the back of her ear*...then smile and tell her to continue.

something like that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Use the coffee date as a qualifier. Don't make it too long, maybe 30-45 minutes. If you like the woman you're interacting with, take her somewhere else where you can initiate Kino. Take her window shopping, to get some ice cream, and initiate kino then.

If you don't like her, end the coffee date and go home.
 

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Desdinova said:
Use the coffee date as a qualifier. Don't make it too long, maybe 30-45 minutes. If you like the woman you're interacting with, take her somewhere else where you can initiate Kino. Take her window shopping, to get some ice cream, and initiate kino then.

If you don't like her, end the coffee date and go home.
:up:

I'll add that this does mean that you will have to talk with her to qualify her before attempting to grope her goodies. Interaction is key to qualifying. Too many recent posts to the forum have attempted to mislead people into believing that you can gain ground during the initial meeting without talking. :down:
 
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