"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Needing some suggestions on haircut

nightcrawler

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My hair is longer now and it's become pretty unmanageable. I'm not sure what to do with it.

I was thinking of getting a cut like this:
http://www.celebrity-exchange.com/celebs/photos54/keanu-reeves_21.jpg

This is what I have now:
http://img254.imageshack.us/my.php?image=dsc01856bu3.jpg
http://img530.imageshack.us/img530/7364/dsc01839dasgc2.jpg

I like how my profile looks but I look like I'm wearing a helmet in frontal view

As for opinions I've gotten mixed. Some people tell me to just "trim it" while others tel me to keep it. I am resorting to you guys because I want to goddamn honest truth.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think you would look good with a clean cut, but with a slight spike at the front.
 

nightcrawler

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50+ replies and no suggestions? at elast say I look like crap or something:(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe I'm an idiot here but the cut you have now looks to me like same cut in your Keanu Reeves example.

YOU have the long floppy bangs look and so does he.

What am I missing?
 

nightcrawler

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Well my hair is all in 1 length..revees' hair is cut in layers

I'm also hoping for other suggestions. Maybe a buzzed cut?

I don't know..I get the sense that people think I'm 15 years old (when in fact I am 20)...perhaps a short cut would make me look more mature.
 

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I hear you. Texture can make a lot of difference. Recently I went and got the usual $12 haircut but I asked the girl to put in some texture. When I left she parted it in the typical "nice guy" nerdy haircut. But I got home washed it, messed it up and put some texture paste in it and it looked awesome!

Have you had short hair before? Did you think it looked good on you? If you think short hair might look good on you, this is what I would do:

Go to a fancy haircut place that charges like $60 for a fancy cut. Tell the stylist you want it short with crazy texture. Then ask her to style it and pay close attention to what she does to it. I mean how dry does she get it before she puts the paste in it, ect. Then buy some fancy texture paste to go with it. Now assuming you like your cut, take a picture of it when you get home. Now next time you get a cut go back to your regular place and show em the picture and tell em how you want it cut and texturized.

Hope that helps
 

ChapStick

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Honest suggestion? I don't think short hair would look that great on you. I think you're better off having your hair kinda fall over your eyes kinda.. Hang on, lemme find a pic somewhere online to show you what I'm talking about..

You have really great hair! I wish I was blessed with hair that grew that straight. Unfortunately, I've got coarse hair!

http://www.whittier.nl/images/articles/Tarkan_1.jpg

Hmm, I realize Here is another idea, and this might fit you better since you look more on the Hispanic side..

http://i7.tinypic.com/6g018ra.jpg

http://images.ctv.ca/archives/CTVNews/img2/20070719/570_enrique.jpg

Sorry dude, but when I saw that picture of the hairstyle you thought of getting, I couldn't help but think video game nerd!

Hopefully you find something that works well for you! Can't hurt to try new hairstyles bro! Best of luck!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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