Needing Some SoSuave Expertise!

[2-D]

Hey SoSuave,

Are there any ways to tell if a girl is interested in you non-verbally? Would be hella useful to me, because I often get girls randomly give me eye contact from across the room, and it'd be good to know whether they are into me or not. I mean across-the-room kind of things.

Cheers

 

[horaholic]

You cant rely on any ioi. You need to just assume she's interested. If you get eye contact, approach. If you DONT get eye contact, approach anyway.

 

[Igetit!]

You cant rely on any ioi. You need to just assume she's interested. If you get eye contact, approach. If you DONT get eye contact, approach anyway.

Agreed.

Although there are different forms of non-verbal contact,it's TOO EASY to get deceived by them and end up making a fool out of yourself.

There's the playing with the hair,smiling,laughing,her touching you,standing near you,etc. All of these are considered IOIs but she can also be doing these things when there's absolutely no interest at all.


For example,a girl can laugh because of the chemistry or attraction you make her feel,but she can also laugh simply because you said somthing funny.


The two ARE NOT the same.


Personally,there's only ONE IOI I care about and go by,and that's this...


When I ask a girl out and she says yes.


Other than that,I care nothing about her playing with her hair,or smiling,or any of those other supposed "IOIs".

 

[Bobby Rio]

Here is a post with some signs if she likes you... these are my favorite to look for:

http://www.tsbmag.com/2009/10/22/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-likes-you-…-5-signs-to-look-for/