"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheDream

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First off Ive been trying work outs for around 3 months now and I havent really seen much gain or anything. Its weird to for me since I am skinny in the arms legs pretty much everywhere except my stomach and I have no idea how to work on that . Any tips or advice would help !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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post diet & routine in as much detail as possible. if you're using a routine you found on the web you can link to it.
 

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Sorry for the late post been away for a bit . Well i will try to explain it as best as I can .

Monday - I work out Bi's , Back and do some cardio after. About 10 mins on treadmill

Wed - I do chest tris and shoulder and some cardio

Friday I do legs and cardio

But everynow and then ill throw in something I read about or see online and try that out . AS for my diet Just basic , for breakfast I either have eggs and toast or Cereal . Lunch I usually have sandwiches at work like tuna and everynow and then Il lhave some chicken w/ some rice and salad. Dinner I guess its usually random and I always seem to be really hungry still at around 9pm So ill usually have something else to eat. . Also I am a dj at clubs so when i go to clubs ill usually drink beer wich I guess doesnt really do me much help now that I think of it . But thats the basics of it I guess.
 

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You're not eating nearly enough. You're not giving your body the fuel and nutrients it needs to grow. With working out, especially for newbies, its important to do the fundamentals really well.

This means hammering out a good diet plan and kicking bad habits. Also, screw working bi's/tri's and 10 minutes of cardio won't do a whole lot unless you're doing very high intensity crossfit stuff. Do BIG compound movements. I've been at this for over 10 years and those still form the basis of my training program.

By the basic movements I mean:

1. Squats.
2. Deadlifts.
3. Bench/Bench variations.
4. Dips.
5. Chin ups/Pull ups.
6. Shoulder press/shoulder press variations.

Check out the stuff in the vault. Lotsa good info in there!
 

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Going along with what Fugly said, also keep a solid ROUTINE. By routine I mean a good exercise plan in which you do the same thing every week.

You don't really need to start switching things up and trying 'random' things unless you've hit a plateua, which you clearly haven't. You should be doing the same exercises every week and moving the weight up as you go.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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