"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheDream

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First off Ive been trying work outs for around 3 months now and I havent really seen much gain or anything. Its weird to for me since I am skinny in the arms legs pretty much everywhere except my stomach and I have no idea how to work on that . Any tips or advice would help !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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post diet & routine in as much detail as possible. if you're using a routine you found on the web you can link to it.
 

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Sorry for the late post been away for a bit . Well i will try to explain it as best as I can .

Monday - I work out Bi's , Back and do some cardio after. About 10 mins on treadmill

Wed - I do chest tris and shoulder and some cardio

Friday I do legs and cardio

But everynow and then ill throw in something I read about or see online and try that out . AS for my diet Just basic , for breakfast I either have eggs and toast or Cereal . Lunch I usually have sandwiches at work like tuna and everynow and then Il lhave some chicken w/ some rice and salad. Dinner I guess its usually random and I always seem to be really hungry still at around 9pm So ill usually have something else to eat. . Also I am a dj at clubs so when i go to clubs ill usually drink beer wich I guess doesnt really do me much help now that I think of it . But thats the basics of it I guess.
 

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You're not eating nearly enough. You're not giving your body the fuel and nutrients it needs to grow. With working out, especially for newbies, its important to do the fundamentals really well.

This means hammering out a good diet plan and kicking bad habits. Also, screw working bi's/tri's and 10 minutes of cardio won't do a whole lot unless you're doing very high intensity crossfit stuff. Do BIG compound movements. I've been at this for over 10 years and those still form the basis of my training program.

By the basic movements I mean:

1. Squats.
2. Deadlifts.
3. Bench/Bench variations.
4. Dips.
5. Chin ups/Pull ups.
6. Shoulder press/shoulder press variations.

Check out the stuff in the vault. Lotsa good info in there!
 

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Going along with what Fugly said, also keep a solid ROUTINE. By routine I mean a good exercise plan in which you do the same thing every week.

You don't really need to start switching things up and trying 'random' things unless you've hit a plateua, which you clearly haven't. You should be doing the same exercises every week and moving the weight up as you go.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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