"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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carreyreincarnate1

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there's this girl who i met at work. she doesnt have the same shift as i do but i met her when she filled in for another employee. we started talking and she's pretty cool. she also happens to go to my school. i only see her during one passing period though and i dont have her number. how should i go about asking her to hang out without sounding like a weirdo?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jeffthechef

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**** how you sound...
do it look you would do anything else (order a happy meal, talk to a sex therapist)...NATURALLY

You wouldn't order a happy meal like you were talking to your sex therapist. "Oh, i'm feeling a little tired from my long sex session last night. I think a happy meal would stimulate my penis. Don't you."

Stop thinking about what other people think, and start thinking about what you think about yourself. If you can man up and ask her out somewhere or get her number, you've gotten closer to becoming an alpha or a man. If you worry about coming off as some stalking son of a teletubby, you'll try to find the best words and plan all the little ****ty details out. Then one of two things will happen. One, you'll do it but sound like a complete weirdo. (Happened to me once) Two, you'll never do it at all.

Go up to her.
Say hi. I'm carreyreincarnate1.
Use a line if you would like, but honestly if you do, don't use something queer.
Then ask if she would liket o hang out this weekend. Make sure you're free first. Then you know the rest.

*Dont ask if she wants to hang out SOMETIME. It's vague. It leaves much to the unknown.
 
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SomethingClever

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How is asking her to hang out going to make you a weirdo? Honestly, the only way you do that is if you stalk her and "coincidentally" bumping into her everywhere. That would be weird. Just ask her man.

Take the chef's advice. And just do it.
 
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