"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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carreyreincarnate1

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there's this girl who i met at work. she doesnt have the same shift as i do but i met her when she filled in for another employee. we started talking and she's pretty cool. she also happens to go to my school. i only see her during one passing period though and i dont have her number. how should i go about asking her to hang out without sounding like a weirdo?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jeffthechef

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**** how you sound...
do it look you would do anything else (order a happy meal, talk to a sex therapist)...NATURALLY

You wouldn't order a happy meal like you were talking to your sex therapist. "Oh, i'm feeling a little tired from my long sex session last night. I think a happy meal would stimulate my penis. Don't you."

Stop thinking about what other people think, and start thinking about what you think about yourself. If you can man up and ask her out somewhere or get her number, you've gotten closer to becoming an alpha or a man. If you worry about coming off as some stalking son of a teletubby, you'll try to find the best words and plan all the little ****ty details out. Then one of two things will happen. One, you'll do it but sound like a complete weirdo. (Happened to me once) Two, you'll never do it at all.

Go up to her.
Say hi. I'm carreyreincarnate1.
Use a line if you would like, but honestly if you do, don't use something queer.
Then ask if she would liket o hang out this weekend. Make sure you're free first. Then you know the rest.

*Dont ask if she wants to hang out SOMETIME. It's vague. It leaves much to the unknown.
 
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SomethingClever

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How is asking her to hang out going to make you a weirdo? Honestly, the only way you do that is if you stalk her and "coincidentally" bumping into her everywhere. That would be weird. Just ask her man.

Take the chef's advice. And just do it.
 
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