"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need your guys help settingup the date..Its online thing..

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Ok guys, I just created my online profile one week ago, and I got one email message, tell me what is the best reply to this email...

email:

I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read :)

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think :)







now, should I just keep messaging, or should I just ask for the date? Which one would be more suitable? Her profile looks as if she's outgoing and active..What to say? I am not looking for one time thing, so what is the best course of action?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd message back and forth for a couple of weeks MAX, then suggest meeting somewhere.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Monkey said:
I'd message back and forth for a couple of weeks MAX, then suggest meeting somewhere.
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A couple of weeks???? :confused: Way too long unless one is going out of town for a week.

I'd message back agreeing with her that her profile was a little light and suggest that she writes back stating what she liked about his profile in order to find some common interests (it's also a way to qualify her).

After receiving her reply, write a note back giving her a little insight about himself in regards to the items she enjoyed about him (of course if he's still interested). At the end tell her that he thinks that they would have a good time talking about these things and that she should meet him for something light like coffee after work. He should tell her a place and a couple of days and times he's available.

So within two or three emails he's started qualifying her and should have a date set up. It shouldn't take more than two or three days if she's truly interested.
 
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I would exchange something like 2 or 3 more emails and then ask her on a date (on the phone, tough)
 
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hello guys again

how does this message sound?

Hey there, how are you?

Looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words, and I would like to find out more about yourself, so tell me whats going in your life..


What else can I add?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadien said:
how does this message sound?

Hey there, how are you?

Looking at your profile, you have a way of telling a lot in a few words, and I would like to find out more about yourself, so tell me whats going in your life..


What else can I add?
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It helps when you comment on something specific in her profile. If you note can be sent to any woman, it's just another form letter.
 
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the message is a little too direct in baiting her in a generic way,I'd look at the chicks profile and take cues of interest while sneaking in something to spark it and bait her in indirectly...:whistle:

basicly open ended questions with her unqiue interests as a templet for material;


'never met a girl that was that into cars..but then you must get that often lol
any plans for more power or it or is it just a joyride?'

'it's pretty sweet!' :cool:
 
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